Friday, July 22, 2011

Monday, July 18, 2011

Thursday, July 14, 2011

The Real Deal

What a cah-ray-zee day folks! T minus 2 days 'till bdubbs & I just can't wait! But, that is not what this post is about...more on that tomorrow. No, this post is solely dedicated to the realness that is me. I received a truly heart warming text today from my dear pal Mo, asking me if all was good in the 'hood. See she read yesterday's blog & wanted to check on me. I have such amaze friends & I def don't want to worry these gems. Yesterday's blog was particularly important, but for a different kind of reason.

I had a friend tell me recently that she loves reading my blog & that it's super fun. She went on to say how lucky I am & how great my life is. Now, don't get me wrong ya'll, I have an amazing time & feel incredibly blessed to have been given the opportunities I've been given, the loving husband I was lucky enough to snag & the amazeballz friends in my life. But, my life is NOT perfect, and the last thing I ever want is for people to think I don't have my fair share of probs. Or, worse yet, for people to think that I have the totes deluded notion that I'm above the everyday bs that life often throws your way. Often, because I'm blogging, I only talk about the good stuff, because frankly, people have enough of their own shizz to deal with in the day to day & defs don't forever want to hear about my neg jazz. Some of you reading this know the deets of personal demons & know me (& my life) are far from perfect.

So yesterday was to show that we all have our stuff, no matter how great things seem on the surface. Everyone does. And anyone who pretends like their life is all sunshine & ponies is out of touch...and that's just not me.

I'm the real deal folks. That's just how I roll.

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Fear

I have not ceased being fearful,

but I have ceased to let fear control me.

I have accepted fear as a part of life -

specifically the fear of change, the fear of the unknown;

and I have gone ahead despite the pounding in my heart that says:

turn back, turn back, you'll die if you venture too far.



~ Erica Jong ~

Saturday, July 9, 2011

Life Is Good...


...when you have your bestie at your side.  Happy Saturday cuties!







Friday, July 8, 2011

Friday Fun

With the 2nd week of July already looming ahead, it's fair to say this month is in full swing.  We had an ultra fab 4th of July weekend, spent attending any number of parties, get togethers, bbq's and the like.  We celebrated with great family & friends and even managed to fit in a night of cuddling on the couch, watching movies (well, I watched while Mike slept, per usual).

Being supah busy at the j.o.b. (umm...being important is taxing) def helped push this week along.  Working from home a day or two a week also helps to break things up, and then, before ya know it, it's Friday.  I made an appointment at the salon in my building for a mani/pedi during lunch and tonight brings me to my old stomping grounds of Oak Park for dinner in La Bella's outside patio with one of my oldest pal's, Joellen.  Since the weather is perfection, I plan to doll it up with some super simp cotton shorts and a peasant top (said peasant top will do double duty of looking adorbes and discreetly hiding my pasta/dessert/wine belly).  Dinners with Jo are usually hours-long affairs as we're not short-winded individuals, so likely I will head straight home after, but don't quote me.

Tomorrow will totes be spent laying out at my pool, and as for the evening...it's still up in the air.  My bestie is trying to convince me to meet her and the Godbabies at a carnival just down the street from the casa, attempting to entice me with promises of a beer garden.  We shall see.

Sunday, as ye all know, is my day of rest.  As such, I will be resting.  The day may just take me to Costco, where I will do some shopping to prep for...(drum roll please).....

BIRCHWOOD!  (whoop whoop)

That's right folks...exactly one week from today, we will be packing up to hit the road for our summer place.  I seriously can.not.wait.  The obligatory planning phone calls with our Birchwood besties have already commenced and the count down officially begins tomorrow.  Get ready to hear more than you've ever cared to know about Birchwood, WI.

In the mean time, have a Happy Friday peeps!

Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Little Pink Houses...

Oh but ain't that America for you and me
Ain't that America somethin' to see baby
Ain't that America home of the free
Little pink houses for you and me

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